Who Killed James Garcia?
"What the hell happened to James??!!" whined one of my friends as she sat on the couch.
"JAAAMESSSSSSS?!!! WHERE ARE YOU?!!!!!" added my other friend.
"Maybe he got drowned in the pool back at the resort last week," I quipped as I sat flanked by the two of them in The House. By the way, I am James.
Things have changed. Maybe because I am now fond of using the pronoun "we" knowing that this "we" has an exclusive purpose. We have been on for just a few days now. And really, I'm telling you, besides the fact that I've eaten tons of words about falling in love and relationships, a part of me has taken a rest (remember my recent post?).
Really, it's indeed foolish. But is it really how this thing goes? Yeah, I am fully aware of that even before I got into this relationship (remember my "Jessica Simpson" blogpost?). Anyway, the reason why my friends were whining is because somehow, they missed that James who would drop green jokes (just simple words would be connected to something sexual, a la Samantha Jones), who would dance around when he feels like it, who would play around (like touching each other's this and that--you know... Well, that's how we are in our gang, yet we don't 'eat' each other). And this change took place since this relationship with my Baby started. It kind of reminds me of one episode in Sex and the CIty... *Carrie Bradshaw mode* In a relationship, how far is one willing to compromise?
But most importantly, who killed James Garcia?
Am I willing to compromise just to strengthen this relationship? I'm not sure. Probably. But the answer is simple and korny: I am just inlove. (Woops!! My dear friend told me it's not 'korny', it's just 'mushy'). Most people have that certain part of them that fades away once they are in a relationship. But that's not my stand about it. Or, I guess, that WAS not my stand about relationships. I believed that we have to show our real side to our partner no matter what and our partner needs to accept it. I was one of those who emphasized this when I had a friend with the same situation that I'm having now. But hell, I'm not trying to avoid showing my real self. It's just that, this is probably me when I'm in a relationship. And maybe, gradually, I would be able to show that side of me which they think is gone now. And it's up to my Baby to accept it or not.
I guess each and everyone of us has this thing called Secret Single Behavior (SSB) right?
That's just mine. And I guess the reason why I wasn't able to talk much that night with my two friends was because I, *clears throat* I mean 'we', had our mouth full while they were just right beside us. ^_^
Korny as it may sound but there are reasons for the two of us using the endearment 'Baby'. Get a clue to get my first reason.
"JAAAMESSSSSSS?!!! WHERE ARE YOU?!!!!!" added my other friend.
"Maybe he got drowned in the pool back at the resort last week," I quipped as I sat flanked by the two of them in The House. By the way, I am James.
Things have changed. Maybe because I am now fond of using the pronoun "we" knowing that this "we" has an exclusive purpose. We have been on for just a few days now. And really, I'm telling you, besides the fact that I've eaten tons of words about falling in love and relationships, a part of me has taken a rest (remember my recent post?).
Really, it's indeed foolish. But is it really how this thing goes? Yeah, I am fully aware of that even before I got into this relationship (remember my "Jessica Simpson" blogpost?). Anyway, the reason why my friends were whining is because somehow, they missed that James who would drop green jokes (just simple words would be connected to something sexual, a la Samantha Jones), who would dance around when he feels like it, who would play around (like touching each other's this and that--you know... Well, that's how we are in our gang, yet we don't 'eat' each other). And this change took place since this relationship with my Baby started. It kind of reminds me of one episode in Sex and the CIty... *Carrie Bradshaw mode* In a relationship, how far is one willing to compromise?
But most importantly, who killed James Garcia?
Am I willing to compromise just to strengthen this relationship? I'm not sure. Probably. But the answer is simple and korny: I am just inlove. (Woops!! My dear friend told me it's not 'korny', it's just 'mushy'). Most people have that certain part of them that fades away once they are in a relationship. But that's not my stand about it. Or, I guess, that WAS not my stand about relationships. I believed that we have to show our real side to our partner no matter what and our partner needs to accept it. I was one of those who emphasized this when I had a friend with the same situation that I'm having now. But hell, I'm not trying to avoid showing my real self. It's just that, this is probably me when I'm in a relationship. And maybe, gradually, I would be able to show that side of me which they think is gone now. And it's up to my Baby to accept it or not.
I guess each and everyone of us has this thing called Secret Single Behavior (SSB) right?
That's just mine. And I guess the reason why I wasn't able to talk much that night with my two friends was because I, *clears throat* I mean 'we', had our mouth full while they were just right beside us. ^_^
Korny as it may sound but there are reasons for the two of us using the endearment 'Baby'. Get a clue to get my first reason.
